Help me explain something in my history without over-explaining it.
What needs explaining: [GAP, REDUNDANCY, DISMISSAL, SHORT STINT, CAREER BREAK, HEALTH, CARING, SOMETHING ELSE]
What actually happened: [PLAINLY — THIS IS BETWEEN US]
How long it lasted, and when: [DATES]
What I did during it, if anything: [COURSES, CARING, FREELANCE, RECOVERY, NOTHING — "NOTHING" IS A REAL ANSWER]
What I am willing to disclose: [SOME OF THIS MAY BE PRIVATE OR LEGALLY SENSITIVE]
Where this needs to work: [CV LINE, COVERING LETTER, SPOKEN ANSWER, APPLICATION FORM]
Produce four sections.
1. THE EXPLANATION — one or two sentences, true, in the format I asked for. It should close the subject rather than open it. No apology, no over-detail, no invitation to ask more.
2. WHERE MY OWN ACCOUNT SOUNDS DEFENSIVE — quote what I wrote above and show me where I am justifying something that needs no justification. This is usually most of the problem.
3. WHAT NOT TO SAY — including anything in what I told you that is private, legally sensitive, or simply not theirs to know. Be explicit about what to leave out.
4. IF THEY PUSH — the follow-up question I should expect, and a second answer that holds the same line without new information.
Do not tell me to spin it as a growth opportunity. If the honest answer is short and slightly awkward, write the short slightly awkward version.
Replace the outlined parts before running
[PLAINLY — THIS IS BETWEEN US][DATES][COURSES, CARING, FREELANCE, RECOVERY, NOTHING — "NOTHING" IS A REAL ANSWER][SOME OF THIS MAY BE PRIVATE OR LEGALLY SENSITIVE][CV LINE, COVERING LETTER, SPOKEN ANSWER, APPLICATION FORM]